Need to spec, gem, glyph or just understand your toon?

Ok, I have been playing World of Warcraft for nearly 4 years and I still don't have a clue how to spec, gem, reforge and glyph many of my toons. But so many of the sites out there like elitistjerks.com which is an excellent site for many people, is written for the player who can understand the complicated language of MMO's. I am not one of those people. I need a "WoW for Dummies" website. Recently, my husband, bless his heart, turned me on to one of those types of sites. If you also need this, please feel free to look at www.noxxic.com. It is an amazingly simple to use site for anyone who does not understand the complicated verbiage of MMO players